PARTY PERIPHERALS: ENGAGING ELEMENTS PART II

The guest list has been locked, the date has been set, and the party venue has been chosen. Now it's time to plan the exciting details of the first of many parties to come before the Big Day. From simple to extravagant or from tasteful to kitschy, the ideas for the perfect engagement party run the gamut to suit any style of soiree.

GAME GALORE

• You Did What? - Throughout the party, the host will ask several close friends and family members to write down something embarrassing that either the Bride or Groom has done in the past. Remind people to keep it light and refrain from disclosing anything too humiliating. Toward the end of the party, the host will read aloud each "roast" and the guests will guess which embarrassing fact belongs to whom.
• Karaoke Kourage - The beloved couple can sing love songs to one another to signify their strong bond. Other guests can join in on the fun, too.
• Soon To Be Newlyweds - Similar to the famous "Newlywed Game Show," this game can include either just the couple or the couple plus a few other guests who are married or in a relationship. The intention of the game is to find out how well the individuals know their partners. With their backs to one another, the couples are asked questions about their significant others, and the answers are written on pieces of posterboard. Whoever has the most matching answers wins.
• 3-Legged Race - If the Engagement Party is an afternoon outdoor gathering, try a 3-legged race using wedding garters. It's a great way to test the physical cooperation between couples.

ACTIVITIES AND SPECIAL MOMENTS

• Special toasts and acknowledgments to the couple.
• A book with hand-written advice from the ones they love. Throughout the party, family members and friends can impart their wisdom of happy marriages and homes.
• A slide show or video commemorating the love and courtship of the couple.
• Announcement of attendants.

THEME AND STYLE

• Cocktail Soiree
• Dinner Party
• Afternoon BBQ
• Garden Tea Party
• Beach or Pool Party

No matter what type of party you have or what kind of games you play, the Engagement Party is a special day honoring the true love and commitment between two individuals. Two families are merging into one, and within months, the Bride and Groom will be on their way to matrimonial joy and happiness. Focus on that ideal, and the party will be a shoe-in for success!

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