When you receive a wedding invitation that has an enclosed RSVP/Reply Card like the one shown below, what you are being asked to do is to write your title (Mr., Miss, Ms, Mrs.) on the line along with your name. And printing over cursive is always appreciated. All reply cards are not designed in this manner, but this is the one that seems to have the most confusion surrounding it. The M is presented to get you started.
When you send it back (on time) it should only include the names of the guests printed on the envelope in which you received your RSVP. Sometimes, you may also be asked to provide the number of guests from your family who are attending the event. And, it should be noted, that the word family means those who live in the same house as you live. This does not mean your extended family members outside of your household, unless they are specifically mentioned by name on the invitation. Never take it upon yourself to add to the guest list of a party for which you are not footing the bill.
I have lots of brides who tell me that guests have informed them, "Oh, you know I'm coming!" Well, take in account how many people have told the bride this. She cannot be expected to remember twelve guest's names and their RSVP status when she ran into you shopping in Target and, for once, her mind was not on her wedding. Help out your couple. Send back the RSVP. And if your status changes, give them a call and let them know either way.
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